It remains deeply discomforting to think that child abusers are like us, are related to us and in many aspects of life appear to be decent people.
We did piercing clinics, and the first one we did was in a condo, where we brought in Karen Hurt, who was a big-name piercer from the West Coast.
And, although most sex abusers are men, about 10 per cent may be women.
These are her earliest memories.
She used to caution me against going down into the garden alone.
Most abuse is carried out by family members or people known to the victim.