You need the other half of your power couple, not someone who needs you to take care of them.
In The Nine Keys, I interviewed over 100 couples spanning all 45 type combinations to hear directly about their relationship strengths and challenges from an Enneagram perspective.
It doesn't matter to you whether you two are out enjoying a succulent dinner or sitting at home watching television.
As difficult as it may be to hear, the reality is that the love you need cannot be obtained from someone who is committed to another.
And in the initial stages of love, you may feel that the connection is strong and genuine when it is not.
You have no identity whatsoever, and instead of being called Mr.