What new skills or resources are you both willing to use now to? This is why calling your ex and asking for another chance seems like the obvious choice; you want him back and that seems like the way to do it.
Until one day my husband began to behave in a way he could not understand, I was very confused by the way he treated me and the children.
Just thiking about them is making me smile and thats what i need to do.
Loneliness is temporary, but a perpetually bad relationship is, well, perpetual.
Then, put them into practice.
Are we getting back together? If you both have this realization, why not go back to the grass you once knew and try to re-water it? My ex of 10 years left me 3 weeks ago.